Customer-Centered: A Product Manager’s Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving Remarkable Results through Customer Engagement 🚀

Customer-Centered Product Management Guide

As product managers, we all know that working with customers is essential. But here’s the thing: when done right, it’s not just a box to tick – it’s one of the most powerful tools in our arsenal.  Embracing customers (not just managing them) will accelerate time-to-market, reduce risk, lower costs, and unlock opportunities you never even knew existed.

I know you’re probably thinking. “I already engage with customers. I do user testing, gather feedback, support sales and customer teams. Isn’t that enough?” Well… no. While many product managers talk about partnering with customers, few truly understand what it means to embrace them fully. This oversight is a missed opportunity – embracing customers is a strategic advantage that, when implemented effectively, can lead to incredible outcomes. Yet, most product managers either overlook this approach entirely or implement it ineffectively.

Master this approach, and you’ll set yourself apart, both in skills and results. The most common objection to adopting customer-centered practices? “It’s too difficult and time-consuming.” But here’s the truth: that’s code for “I don’t ‘get it’, understand how to do it efficiently, and I’ve never experienced the benefits.” This mindset leads to the opposite of what we intend: managing customers at arm’s length and missing out on invaluable insights and opportunities. This holds us back, feeds out internal bias, lowers our quality, increases our timelines and reduces our ability to capitalize on emerging opportunities.

In this guide, we’ll walk you through a step-by-step approach to engaging with customers like a pro. We’ll dive into the why, the when, and the how — complete with real-world examples and practical tools you can put into action today. We’ll conclude with an action plan to help you implement these strategies, additional insights to deepen your understanding, and a special ‘Into Action’ section featuring fresh perspectives from an up-and-coming product manager.

 

Managing vs. Embracing: What’s the Difference? 🤔

Let’s be real: the difference between managing and embracing customers can feel a bit fuzzy, especially if you’re already knee-deep in user testing, sales support, and all the other customer-facing activities that fill up our calendars.

To appreciate the benefits of embracing customers, it’s essential to understand the differences between managing them and partnering with them. This distinction is not just theoretical; it has practical implications that can transform your product management approach.

Here is the big picture: the key pros and cons of managing vs. embracing customers are:

	Managing Customers	Embracing Customers
Pros ✅	– Clear boundaries and expectations. – Easier to scale in the short-term. – Less time-intensive day-to-day.	– Deeper customer insights and loyalty. – More opportunities for innovation. – Stronger, more resilient relationships. – Lower risk and more efficient overall.
Cons ❌	– Limited understanding of customer needs. – Higher risk of churn & dissatisfaction. – Reactive vs. proactive problem-solving.	– Requires added time and effort to learn and establish. – Can be more complex to manage and require strong communication skills. – Blurred lines between professional and personal.

Table: Managing Customers vs. Embracing Customers

As you can see, while managing customers might seem like the path of least resistance in the short-term, embracing them is the secret sauce for long-term success. Sure, it requires a bigger investment of time and energy upfront – but the rewards in terms of customer loyalty, insight, and innovation are unmatched.

So, what does this look like in practice? Let’s break down the key differences between managing and embracing customers:

Aspect	Managing Customers	Embracing Customers
Relationship	Transactional, focused on maintaining an image.	Partnership, built on transparency and trust.
Communication	Selective sharing, carefully curated.	Open and authentic, customers are part of the team.
Mindset	Customers are important but external.	Customers are integral to success, a shared journey.
Decision-Making	Constant negotiation and compromise.	Collaborative problem-solving and co-creation.
Support	Limited to contractual obligations.	Going above and beyond, invested in mutual success.
Interaction	Formal and structured, on your terms.	Informal and ongoing, a two-way dialogue.
Issues & Challenges	Reactive damage control, protecting the relationship.	Proactive problem-solving, leveraging the relationship.
Long-Term Outlook	Focused on short-term transactions and firefighting.	Oriented towards mutual growth and shared success.
Engagement Strategy	Ad hoc and reactive, driven by immediate needs.	Proactive and strategic, focused on continuous collaboration.
Trust Building	Transactional, based on meeting minimum expectations.	Relational, based on transparency, empathy, and shared values.

Table: Managing Customers vs. Embracing Customers

Understanding these differences is crucial, but knowing how to put them into practice is where the real value lies. By understanding and embracing these differences, you can unlock significant benefits for your product and business. Now that we’ve established the ‘why’ of embracing customers, let’s explore the ‘how’ by diving into the customer interaction lifecycle.

 

The Customer Interaction Lifecycle: A Roadmap to Engagement 🗺️

Embracing customers isn’t just a philosophical shift—it’s a practical one that requires deliberate action at every stage of your product journey. This framework will guide you through integrating customer engagement from pre-sales to post-launch, ensuring you’re not just managing customers but truly partnering with them for mutual success. This approach will not only enhance customer loyalty and satisfaction but also drive innovation and reduce risks.

Stage	Traditional Touchpoints	Extended Touchpoints	Benefits
General Market / Pre-Sales	– Conduct market research. – Analyze competitor offerings. – Develop buyer personas.	– Engage in customer discovery interviews. – Participate in industry forums and events. – Collaborate with customers on early-stage product ideation.	– Deeper understanding of customer needs and pain points. – Identification of untapped market opportunities. – Early validation of product concepts and value propositions.
Sales Process	– Create product demos and pitch decks. – Respond to RFPs and security questionnaires. – Provide technical support during contract negotiations.	– Join sales calls to gather customer feedback firsthand. – Collaborate with customers on tailored solution design. – Incorporate customer insights into product roadmap and priorities.	– Increased deal velocity and win rates. – Stronger alignment between product capabilities and customer needs. – Greater customer trust and buy-in for future product vision.
Implementation	– Conduct product training sessions. – Provide implementation best practices and guidance. – Gather customer feedback on initial product usage.	– Collaborate with customers on success planning and goal setting. – Develop customized onboarding and adoption programs. – Participate in regular check-in calls to monitor progress and identify challenges.	– Faster time-to-value and product adoption. – Early identification and mitigation of potential roadblocks. – Ongoing gathering of product feedback and feature requests.
Post-Launch / Ongoing	– Analyze product usage data and metrics. – Respond to customer support escalations. – Prioritize feature requests and bug fixes – Conduct regular business reviews w/ key customers. – Collaborate with customers on beta programs and early access features. – Advocate for customers internally and align roadmap with their evolving needs.	– Monitor product health and customer satisfaction. – Identify expansion and upsell opportunities. – Validate new feature ideas and prioritize enhancements. – Turn customers into loyal product advocates.	– Proactive identification of expansion and upsell opportunities. – Continuous gathering of product feedback and validation of roadmap priorities. – Turning customers into loyal product advocates and references.

Table: Customer Touchpoints w/ Benefits

Extended PM touchpoints foster a more collaborative and empathetic relationship with customers. Activities like engaging in customer discovery interviews, collaborating on tailored solution design, and conducting regular business reviews, help product managers gain a richer understanding of their customers’ needs, challenges, and goals. By taking an active role in shaping the customer experience at every stage, product managers can build deeper relationships, gather more meaningful insights, and ultimately drive better outcomes, faster, for both the customer and the business.

However, successful customer engagement also hinges on the quality of your conversations. Let’s delve into the types of conversations that matter most, ensuring you can build strong, productive relationships with your customers.

 

Conversations That Matter: Mastering Customer Communication 💬

As a product manager, the quality and depth of your customer conversations can make or break your ability to build strong relationships. There are three levels of conversation that PMs must be prepared for and ultimately master. I learned the importance of these conversation types firsthand when I joined D2L. We had a large customer in the K-12 segment with a list of ‘urgent demands’, threatening to leave if they weren’t addressed. Over time we worked through these conversations, transforming what was initially a challenging situation into one of our strongest and healthiest relationships in the segment.

This experience highlighted the critical nature of the following conversation types:

1. Urgent Needs (Hot Topics): When customers are facing critical issues or “the house is burning down,” they can’t focus on anything else until these urgent needs (real or perceived) are addressed. PMs must be able to quickly identify and prioritize these hot topics, and work with their teams to find swift resolutions.
2. Active Development Priorities: Engaging customers in conversations about the immediate activities and priorities in the product development process is crucial. These discussions help PMs gather feedback, validate assumptions, and ensure that the team is building the right features that customers will actually use and value.
3. Strategic Alignment: PMs must also engage customers in conversations about the future direction of the product, market trends, and the overall strategy. These discussions help to align the product roadmap with the evolving needs and goals of the customer and foster a shared vision for long-term success.

Let’s dive deeper into each level:

Conversation	Description	Key PM Actions	Benefits
Urgent Needs (Hot Topics)	Conversations that address critical issues or “burning” problems that customers are facing, which prevent them from focusing on anything else until resolved.	– Quickly identify and prioritize urgent customer needs. – Collaborate with cross-functional teams to find swift resolutions (not necessarily through development). – Communicate action plans and timelines to the customer.	– Faster issue resolution and improved customer satisfaction. – Demonstrates responsiveness and builds trust. – Provides insights into product limitations and areas for improvement.
Active Development Priorities	Discussions about the immediate activities and priorities in the product development process, to gather feedback, validate assumptions, and ensure the team is building the right features.	– Engage customers in regular check-ins and feedback sessions. – Proactively seek input on features, usability, and pain points. – Validate assumptions and gather data to inform product decisions.	– Ensures product-market fit and customer value. – Identifies potential issues early in the development process. – Fosters continuous improvement and innovation.
Strategic Alignment	Conversations about the future direction of the product, market trends, and the overall strategy, to align the product roadmap with customer needs and goals.	– Understand the customer’s strategic priorities and success metrics. – Share product vision, roadmap, and gather feedback. – Identify opportunities for co-innovation and long-term collaboration.	– Strengthens executive relationships and trust. – Validates product strategy and informs roadmap priorities. – Uncovers new growth opportunities and partnerships.

Table: PM Conversations That Matter

By mastering these three levels of customer conversations PMs can build deeper, more strategic relationships that go beyond transactional interactions. Each level plays a critical role in aligning the product strategy with customer needs, proactively identifying and resolving issues, and continuously gathering insights to drive product innovation and improvement. Mastering these conversations is just the beginning; to truly excel, you need to adopt a strategic approach in every interaction.

 

Additional Insights 🧐

Effective customer communication involves both the types of conversations and your approach. To embrace your customers as partners, you need to approach every interaction with empathy, curiosity, and a genuine commitment to understanding their perspective and needs. These additional insights will help you build deeper relationships, foster trust, and drive sustained innovation.

That means actively listening more than you speak, asking probing questions to uncover deeper insights, and being transparent about your own goals and constraints. It means approaching every conversation as an opportunity to learn and collaborate, rather than simply to sell or defend your product.

Here are some important best practices to keep in mind as you work to master the art of customer centered development:

• Find the common thread that binds. In EdTech, the shared goal of improving student outcomes is often the common thread that brings stakeholders together. By focusing on this larger purpose, product managers can forge stronger relationships and align efforts across different groups, from faculty and administrators to technology providers and policymakers. This principle holds true in other industries as well. In healthcare, for example, the shared focus on improving patient outcomes can be a powerful unifying force. Identify the common goal that matters most to your stakeholders and use it as a north star to guide your collaboration efforts.
• Seek out the skeptics. Don’t shy away from tough conversations or critical feedback. At Cengage, when signing people up for our ‘Come Build with Us’ market development plan, we proactively sought out the toughest critics on each campus, as recommended by the leadership. By engaging these skeptics early and addressing their concerns head-on, we were able to turn many of them into strong advocates for our product. Remember, your most vocal critics can become your greatest allies if you take the time to understand and address their needs.
• Embrace transparency. Building trust with customers requires openness and honesty. Be upfront about your goals, your roadmap, and your challenges – and be willing to have difficult conversations when things don’t go as planned. The difference between influence and manipulation lies in your approach and your level of transparency. By being open and authentic in your customer interactions, you can build lasting relationships based on trust and mutual respect.
• Be prepared for success. When you genuinely engage with customers, they will respond positively. During my time at Cengage, we implemented a “Come Build with Us” market development program that invited faculty to participate in our product development process. The response was so overwhelming that we had to quickly scale up our efforts to accommodate all the interested participants. Be ready to create additional opportunities for collaboration as your relationships grow.
• Empower your internal teams. Embracing customers isn’t just a PM responsibility – it’s a mindset that needs to permeate your entire organization. Work with your cross-functional colleagues, particularly your development teams, to identify opportunities for them to engage with customers directly and build their own relationships. When developers have the chance to hear directly from customers about their needs and challenges, they can become more invested in creating solutions that truly meet those needs.

Equipped with these insights and best practices, you’re ready to take your customer engagement to the next level. It’s time to put everything together into a cohesive action plan that will guide you in implementing these strategies effectively within your organization.

 

Putting It All Together: Your Action Plan 🎬

The principles and strategies outlined in this article provide a solid foundation for embracing customers and fostering meaningful collaboration. However, it’s essential to recognize that every organization and situation is unique. The key is to adapt these principles to your specific context and start from where you are today.

Whether you’re just beginning your customer-centric journey or looking to optimize your existing approach, this action plan will guide you:

1- Start small, think big

• Select a handful of strategic customers to pilot your new approach
• Define clear goals and success metrics, and track progress closely
• Celebrate early wins and use learnings to refine your strategy before scaling up

2 – Empower your internal champions

• Identify colleagues who are already customer-obsessed and have influence within the organization
• Provide them with training, resources, and recognition to help them lead by example
• Foster cross-functional collaboration and knowledge-sharing to build a customer-centric culture

3- Communicate, communicate, communicate

• Develop a communication plan to keep customer centricity top-of-mind across the organization
• Share success stories, learnings, and customer feedback regularly through various channels
• Encourage open dialogue and feedback to continuously refine your approach

4 – Embrace continuous improvement

• Regularly assess the effectiveness of your customer engagement strategies and tactics
• Seek input from customers, colleagues, and industry peers to identify areas for improvement (remember to look for skeptics!)
• Be willing to experiment, iterate, and adapt based on new insights and changing market conditions

Follow this action plan and consistently practice these principles to build a truly customer-centric product management approach. Remember, embracing customers is not a one-time initiative, but a fundamental shift in mindset and culture.

 

Into Action: Fresh Perspectives and Q&A 🛠️

To provide a fresh perspective on implementing these customer-centric strategies, I’ve invited Mihir Gupte to share his thoughts and plans. Mihir is a recent Duke graduate and a rising star in the product management world. His experience as a new PM offers valuable insights into how emerging product managers can put these principles into action, bridging the gap between theory and practice.

Mihir’s Perspective: Embracing Customer-Centricity as a New PM

As a new product manager, I’ve found Terry’s insights on customer-centric development both inspiring and practical. Currently, my approach has involved a lot of efficient, low-touch customer engagement to manage our scaling efforts. However, after digesting these principles, I’m planning to focus on two key areas:

1. Accelerating Time-to-Value: My immediate goal is to tackle onboarding fatigue with a minimum click process to shorten time-to-value for our customers. This aligns with Terry’s emphasis on the implementation stage of the customer interaction lifecycle.
2. Engaging with Challenging Customers: By understanding the nuance between data-driven and data-informed, I aim to delve more into customer interactions, especially the customers who have low CSAT, are facing difficulties, or are showing low engagement. This approach resonates with Terry’s advice to “seek out the skeptics” and transform critics into advocates.

Currently, my role leans more towards the “managing” side of customer interactions. However, Terry’s article has shown me the immense opportunity to truly embrace our customers. I’m excited to move toward the right side of the table and elevate my product management practice. One line that particularly resonated with me was, “The best products aren’t built in a vacuum, they’re co-created with customers.” This encapsulates the essence of customer-centric product development and will be my guiding principle moving forward.

Q&A with Terry and Mihir

To address some common questions about implementing these strategies, Mihir and I have collaborated on a brief Q&A:

Q1: How can new PMs overcome the challenge of limited resources when trying to implement more customer-centric practices?

Mihir: As a new PM, I’ve found that leveraging existing touchpoints can be effective. For example, I’m planning to review sales call recordings and join customer support sessions to gain direct customer insights without requiring additional resources.

Terry: Excellent point, Mihir. I’d add that even with limited resources, PMs can prioritize one or two key customers for deeper engagement. The insights gained from these interactions can then be applied more broadly.

Q2: How do you balance the need for customer-centricity with other stakeholder demands, such as hitting short-term business targets?

Mihir: This is something I’m still navigating, but I’m finding that framing customer-centric initiatives in terms of long-term value and retention can help align with business goals.

Terry: Great observation. I’ve found that consistently communicating the link between customer success and business success is crucial. Use data and customer stories to demonstrate how customer-centric approaches drive business results.

Q3: How can PMs effectively communicate the value of customer-centric practices to leadership and get buy-in for these initiatives?

Mihir: I’m planning to start small, measure the impact of customer-centric initiatives, and use these results to make a case for broader implementation.

Terry: Excellent strategy, Mihir. I’d also recommend involving leadership in customer interactions when possible. Hearing directly from customers can be a powerful way to demonstrate the value of these practices.

 

A Final Word 🎉

As we’ve seen from both my experience and Mihir’s fresh perspective, embracing customers is not just a strategy; it’s a mindset. It’s about recognizing that your customers are not merely users of your product but active partners in your success. By fostering genuine collaboration, empathy, and transparency at every stage of the product journey, you can unlock a new level of innovation, agility, and growth.

The path to customer centricity is not always easy, but it is always worthwhile. It requires a willingness to challenge assumptions, to listen deeply, and to adapt continuously. But when you truly put your customers at the heart of your product management approach, magic happens.

You’ll build stronger relationships, create more value, and drive better outcomes for your business and your customers alike. You will lower risk and increase efficiency. You’ll foster a culture of curiosity, experimentation, and shared success. And you’ll unleash the full potential of your products and your people.

As you embark on this journey, remember, the best products aren’t built in a vacuum. They’re co-created with customers, every step of the way. Embracing customers is not just about building better products. It’s about building a better future, together.

 

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